Cover of a children's book titled "Mommy Eats Fried Grasshoppers!" featuring a woman with a flower in her hair eating a fried grasshopper with her tongue out, and a little girl with a flower in her hair holding a bag of grasshoppers, both smiling.

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Mommy Eats Fried Grasshoppers

Vilayvanh Bender, art by Nor Sanavongsay

A mother with a Lao upbringing and a daughter with Lao-american values share their story of the generational and cultural differences between each other.

Mahlee loves doing things with her mother. When Mommy suggests that she try fried grasshoppers, something she ate as a child growing up in Laos, Mahlee is not so sure.

  • Mommy Eats Fried Grasshoppers spread: Mahlee greets with a nop, saying Sabaidee, beside a globe marking Laos and the USA
  • Mommy Eats Fried Grasshoppers spread: Mahlee eats cereal while young Mommy eats eggs and khao niao, sticky rice, from a basket
  • Mommy Eats Fried Grasshoppers spread: Mahlee swims in a backyard pool while Mommy swam in a fish pond in Laos
  • Illustration from Mommy Eats Fried Grasshoppers: Mommy happily eats a fried grasshopper while her surprised daughter holds a bag of chips

Mommy knows it’s time to tell her daughter how different her life was in Laos. She drank water from a coconut, wore shoes made from banana tree trunks, made dolls out of rags, did homework on a small blackboard, swam in a pond, and had a beetle and a fighting fish as pets. Not only that—she ate fried grasshoppers!

“They taste just like potato chips,” Mommy tells her, but Mahlee changes the subject. She lives in California, and Americans don’t eat fried grasshoppers.

Her mother suggests again that they have fried grasshoppers while they watch a movie. Mahlee thinks about it. She and Mommy always do things together, she realizes. Why should this be any different?

In Mommy Eats Fried Grasshoppers and through the closeness of a mother-daughter relationship, Vilayvanh Bender shows children that cultural differences are just that—differences.

Story by Vilayvanh Bender

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